Polyamory Night

Speed Dating for Polyamorous People

March 20 | 6:30 - 8pm | $37

Polyamory Night

Speed Dating for Polyamorous People

March 20th | 6:30-8pm

START MAKING REAL, MEANINGFUL CONNECTIONS

Find friends, lovers, and partners...

Are you ready to expand your polycule? Do you desire more ethically non-monogamous friends who get you? Come find your people at Polyamory Night...

We're curating a group of polyamorous people so you can feel comfortable expressing your authentic self in a safe, non-judgemental space.

You'll be matched with 6 people for 6-minute mini-dates so you can feel out their vibe and decide if you want to continue the conversation later.

Spaces are limited. Don't wait to register.

START MAKING REAL, MEANINGFUL CONNECTIONS

Find friends, lovers, and partners...

Are you ready to expand your polycule? Do you desire more ethically non-monogamous friends who get you? Come find your people at Polyamory Night!

We're curating a group of polyamorous people so you can feel comfortable expressing your authentic self in a safe, non-judgemental space.

You'll be matched with 6 people for 6-minute mini-dates so you can feel out their vibe and decide if you want to continue the conversation later. It's a structured, fun environment suitable for both introverts and extroverts.

Spaces are limited. Don't wait to register.

Meet Your Match(es) In 6 Easy Steps

At Polyamory Night you'll be surrounded by your kind of people in a structured environment that makes it easy to meet new friends, lovers, or partners.

During this event, you'll enjoy 6 mini-dates curated to your lifestyle and interests.

Here's how the process works:

Step 1. Register

Click any REGISTER NOW button on this page and complete your registration.

Step 2. Match Survey

After registering, fill our the short Match Survey to let us know about you and what you're looking for.

Step 3. Polyamory Night

Show up for Polyamory Night ready to meet 6 amazing people for mini-dates.

Step 4. Match Card

Fill out your Match Card as you meet your matches to let us know who you vibe with.

Step 5. Your Matches

Within 72 hours of your Date Night, you will receive an email with your matches.

Step 6. Connection

Connect with your matches via Text or Email. We'll even provide sample messages to send.

Over 155 MATCHES

HAVE BEEN MADE AT OUR EVENTS!

Ditch Your Dating Apps!

Try No Swipe Date Night Instead!

Here at No Swipe Date Night, we're more than just a dating company. We're a community of rebels who believe that love shouldn't be forced to fit into a box. It should be free and wild.

People are drawn to No Swipe Date Night events because they are looking to write their own love stories based on what feels good for them, not on what society thinks their love should look like. If you're ready to cast off the "rules" of dating and relationships and finally create the perfect fit for you, then welcome...you've found your people.

At our events, we bring together a diverse group of people who are exploring Radical Relationships. We're the weird ones who want deeper love and we're willing to do the work to get it. That means we have the hard conversations, express ourselves authentically, ask for what we want, and have the courage to be vulnerable.

That might feel a bit scary at first, but don't worry you're safe here. You're safe to be exactly who you are without fear of being judged or shamed.

It also means that we ask YOU to show up to our spaces with a judgment-free attitude. You might meet some people at our events who are very different than you or who do relationship differently.

We ask that you have an open-mind and heart as you connect with people who on-the-surface you might not think you have anything in common with. Stay open and you just might be surprised at the similarities you have in common.

And if you end up meeting people who you don't vibe with, all you have to do is mark "no" on your Match Card. No awkward, "Sorry, but I don't want to see you again" texts necessary.

Plus, mini-dates only last about 6 minutes so you'll never be stuck in long-awkward conversations as you choke your way through an entire dinner.

As a single gal who's also navigating Modern Dating, I've created No Swipe Date Night to be exactly what I want in a dating experience. I hate dating apps, ghosting, and awkward small talk. You won't have to endure any of that as you explore the realm of No Swipe Date Night.

So what are you waiting for? Click that Registration button and start your adventure today!

5 Reasons You Should Try No Swipe Date Night

  • Unplug and Connect: Say goodbye to the endless swiping and hello to real-life connections at No Swipe Date Night!

  • Polyamory Paradise: Join us in a judgment-free zone where you can embrace your polyam lifestyle without explanation or hesitation.

  • Save Big, Love Big: While a typical Albuquerque date night might burn a hole in your wallet to the tune of $118, you can snag a spot at Polyamory Night for just $37!

  • Speed Dating with a Twist: Get ready for a night of structured fun where you'll meet six potential partners and discover sparks in every conversation.

  • Chill Vibes Only: Kick back and relax in our laid-back atmosphere filled with laughter, snacks, and the potential for something magical.

And for just $37, you'll get:

  • Admission to the Polyamory Speed Dating event

  • Six chances to meet someone special

  • A supportive community of like-minded individuals

  • Refreshments to keep the energy high all night long

Let's make some memories together—secure your spot today!

Your Event

You've been invited to join us at Polyamory Night:

ALBUQUERQUE: Polyamory Night

March 20th | 6:30 - 8pm | $37

Join Other Happy Daters

I had so much fun yesterday! Thank you for hosting and for creating such a great event.


I really appreciate how welcoming it was, and I’m excited to be a part of the community more! Yesterday really helped as a way to ease in in a structured and less stressful way.

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A Polyamorous Dater

YOUR SAFETY MATTERS

Modern dating can be scary. Meeting a total stranger from a dating app all alone can feel like a huge gamble. Don't risk it!

At No Swipe Date Night , we create a safe space for you to meet new people in a group environment. You won't be stuck in an awkward hours long date with a total creep. You get to feel out someone's vibe in-person before you agree to continue talking with them. You're always in control of the information you share with your matches too.

We've always got your back at our events. If someone shows up intoxicated or has some unsafe vibes, we're not afraid to ask them to leave and remove them from our match pool. You can rest assured that we take consent seriously too without harshing the vibe of the experience.

You can practice the art of flirting in a safe, consensual way so you can be yourself, catch some feels, and have your boundaries respected. Now that's hot.

EVENT LOCATION

The Orpheum Community Hub

This event will be hosted at The Orpheum Community Hub in Downtown Albuquerque. This is a gorgeous, versatile location that will allow for ample space to chat without feeling cramped or overwhelmed.

We are a sober-friendly business and aim to provide sober spaces for connection. This is an event venue and not a space open to the public, so there won't be any alcohol or other substances in the space.

We're also neurodivergent-friendly, so you won't have to navigate any loud crowds or experience overstimulation.

Accessibility: This space is fully accessible with no stairs.

EVENT ADDRESS:

500 2ND STREET SW

ALBUQUERQUE, NM 87102

Join Other Happy Daters

I had so much fun yesterday! Thank you for hosting and for creating such a great event.

I really appreciate how welcoming it was, and I’m excited to be a part of the community more! Yesterday really helped as a way to ease in in a structured and less stressful way.

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A Polyamorous Dater

Frequently Asked Question

What are the ages of the people at the event?

Our minimum age is 21 and there is no maximum age. We general have a well-rounded crowd and we can get you matched up with people who are in your desired age range.

I want to join, but I'm a bit anxious. Can you tell me what to expect at the event?

Absolutely! Being nervous is normal, and I'm happy to help walk you through what to expect at the event. 

When you arrive, you will fill out a name tag and get your Date Card. You can mingle with other guests while we wait for everyone to arrive. Once everyone is ready, your host will walk you through the instructions for the night, including where the Date Stations are and how to fill out your card. Then you will go to your first Date Station to meet your first potential match of the evening. 

You will have 6 minutes to chat and get a feel for their vibe. You will get a 1-minute heads up to start winding down your conversation. At the end of each round, you will get a signal to move to your next Date Station. Repeat this process for all 6 dates. 

At the end of the speed dating, we will have more mingle time while you finish filling out your date card.

After the event, we will tally up the matches and send you the list of your connections plus their contact info so you can follow up with them. We'll even give you a sample text/email you. can send. You take it from there :)

What kind of people attend these events? Will I be a good fit?

We curate our events to attract like-minded people. You'll be surrounded by other people who practice ethical non-monogamy, so if you are ENM of any kind then you're a great fit!

We're a hella inclusive group, so we invite you to join us in a non-judgemental space where you can be yourself and let your freak flag fly. You want to connect with other humans who get you, not put on a bunch of masks trying to pretend you're someone you're not. In this space, you're free to be yourself.

Will it just be dudes?

We get this question a lot. The answer is a resounding NOPE. In fact, at some of our events the women outnumber the men by a pretty decent margin. We also get plenty of gender non-conforming people at our events too, so if you're trans or non-binary you'll fit right in!

I'm Queer, am I welcome here?

Absolutely! We love and accept all of our LGBTQIAA+ community. We're an inclusive, welcoming space where you can find other polyamorous people who get you.

Stop Swiping!

You're sick of dating apps. Going to bars is awkward and loud.

Try No Swipe Date Night - the cure to modern dating.

We hand-select all 6 of the dates you will be going on,

so you only meet with people who "get" you.

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Albuquerque, NM 87123

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